BilA NaK BELANJA?

hahaha..ehem, belum pape ag da nk gelak kn..pe daaa..

sebenrnye sy teringin nk tulis entri n bile teringtkn 'kejadian' yg menimpa sahabatku maya (bukan nama sebenar), lebih kurg 2 mggu yg lalu..
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adela sorg mamat n ajak maya kuar kuar..walaupon bkn first meet, tp ni first time la dyeorg kuar berdua..
ceritanye bermula cmni, mula2 smpai mamat n ajak la mkn KFC..dye mmg da lme jnji nk blanja maya mkn KFC klu dyeorg kuar sme2, so ari tu mamat tu la yg belanja..
tp sebenarnye sblm tu, mamat tu mmg ade berhutang topup ngn maya n..so, kire mcm bayar hutang la tu..so, kesimpulannya tu bkn belanja la kn?? i think so..

pas dyeorg da mkn, cdgnye nk g tgok wyg, tp tiket lak lmbt sgt..so, x jadik la..
tibe2 maya nmpk satu tempat yg agak bes jgk la tuk dilawati..so, dye pon cdgknla pada mamat n tuk masuk kt tmpt tu..

nk dijadikkan cerita, tibe2 je mamat tu cakap cmni:

"awak belanja ye?"

maya ni ape lagi, panas la dgr mamat tu ckp cmtu..bkn pe, sblm n dye mmg penah la terfikir nak wat x tau je kat mamat n disebabkan kes duit (topup)..xsangka la plak mamat n leh mintk dye belanja time first date dyeorg (not as a couple, but just as a friend)..

maya pon balas la cmni:

"eh, nape plak sy kene blanja awk? byr sendri2 la"

so, mknenye maya xde lak ckp nk blanja dye..
then time nk kene bayar kt kaunter, maya pon hulur la RM11 (bayaran tuk seorang: RM10.80) kpd mamat n..wlaupun mamat n ade wat pndgn mate yg membawa seribu mkna, maya ni wat x tau jela..malas la nk layan..

ingtkn pe la, rupenye pas dpt tiket, mamat tu pon ckp cmni:

"tadi cakap nk belanja.."

"what the H**L??" pe hal lak ak nak belanja ko??
skrg n ak ke ko yg da kerje?
skrg n ak ke ko yg ajak kuar?
sekarang n ak ke ko yg bergelar LELAKI???

tp semua carutan tu just happen dlm hati maya ni jela..
ak yg mendengar crita drpd maya ni pon geram..

"sengal giler mamat tu!" (walaupon bkn monolog dlm hati tapi mamat tu ttp x leh dgr sbb dye xde kt tmpt kejadian..huhu)

sambung balik cerita td..pas mamat tu ckp cmtu, maya n wat x tau jela. maya cakap:

"eh, mne de sy ckp nk belanja awk"

then, mamat tu pon senyap jela..tau pon nk senyap..adeyhh..

next, pas dyeorg da kuar drpd tmpt tu, maya ni pon ajak la mamat n prg supermarket yg ade kt situ..(member dye pesan belikan something)..

time tgh beli tu, maya ni tnye la mamat tu:

"awak xde nk beli pape ke?"

dye tnye cmtu sbb mamat tu xde amik pape brg pon tuk dibeli..

and then..tau x pe mamat tu jawab??

"awak belanja la.."

WTF!! pe hal lak maya kene blanja mamat tu plak..biol la mamat tu..

ak tnye la maya, kot2 dye blanja jgk mamat tu, rupenye maya still kuat ag tuk menolak 'niat baik' mamat tu tuk dibelanja..fuhhh, lega ak mendengarnye..

so, pas da beli brg, dyeorg pon balik la..pas msg2 menaiki pengangkutan awam msg2, tamat la cerita dyerog tuk ari tu..

disebabkan perangai mamat tu yg pelik+aneh+sengal cmtu, maya ni pon terfikir la nk menyepikn diri cmtu je drpd mamat n..tp dlm mase yg sme, mamat n beria-ia lg nk kwn ngn maya n..so, sbb maya ade ati yg baek ag mudah kesian, satu ari tu dye balas la jgk msj mamat ni..

mamat n tnye:

"nape lme je mnyepi? ingtkn merajuk ngn sy.."

maya pon jawab:

"bz ckit la..asyik terlupe nk msj awk"

padahal klu ikutkn ati nk je maya ni jwb yg dye mmg klu leh xnk ade kwn mcm mamat n ag..huhu..x mgkin la dye jawab cmtu..mne smpai ati..

jeng3, tibelah giliran mamat n pulak yg balas msj kn..cube korg teke pe yg mamat n cakap..

"rindu la kt sayang. bile awak nak belanja abang?"

sayang: perkataan yg maya benci, tp mamat n cbuk nk gune jugak..
abang: refer kat umur dye yg da 30-an tu kot..huhu..(salunye saya)

selepas dianalisis oleh ak dan maya, kami membuat keptusan tuk tdk lagi membalas msj mamat tersebut..
pehal lak mamat? xde bende len ke nk ckp..asyik2 suh belanja..aiyshhh!

so, ak pon suh la maya ni keraskan ati ckit..buang sekejap sifat belas kasihannya pada mamat n..
pe taknye, org punye la baek ati nk layan msj dye walupun x suke ngn perangai dye tu, tp last2 end up cmtu jgk..senang2 je dye mangakhiri perbualan tu dgn ayat yg membuatkan maya ni x suke dekat dye..pastu, mmg maya xde da la bls msj mamat n walaupon mamat n ade gak antar msj kat dye..tegur mcm xde pape jdi kononnye..

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ini kisah benar tau..tiada tokok tambah di mana2..

sy x tau la pe pndgn korg mngenai kisah di atas ni..but as for me, sy rase mamat tu mmg betul2 SENGAL!!

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p/s: UP : GURLZZZ

so, kpd pmpn kt luar sne, jgn mudh kesian & turutkn kehendak or permintaan laki2 mcm mamat n..dyeorg skrg da x malu nk mntk2 duet pmpn..da la x de pape hbgn..nak pulak time first date cmtu..mmg x masuk akal la..tuk pengetahuan korang, maya ni student ag, mamat tu plak da keje lme da..(keje bese2 je kot)

satu ingatan penting kat cn ialah saya nk pesan jgk la pade sume gurl2 kat luar sne, jgn la plak korg wat perangai cm mamat td..walauipon kite ni perempuan, kite ttp ade harga diri..so, jgnla murah sgt smpai mntk laki beli mcm2 tuk kite..da kawin nnti xpela kot..huhu
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p/s: UP : BOYZZZ

kpd sume boys kat luar sana, diharapkan anda semua dpt amik pengajaran drpd kisah di atas..jgn sesekali malukan kaum Adam dengan perangai cmtu..
be a gentleman la..bkn nk suh belanja prmpn sentiasa, tapi jgnla asyik suh prmpuan belanja je..x malu ke??

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p/s : UMUM

saya mintak maaf sangat2 kalau ade sesape yg terase ati dengan entri ni..x bermaksud nk memalukan or menyakitkan hati sesiapa..sekadar renungan dan pengajran semata..
kalau 'mamat' yg dimaksudkan di atas terbace entri ni, muhasabah la diri tu semula..

ok, ni jela wat mase skrg..ade mse nnti saya tulis lagi ye..
salam..

~my friends~

I love my friends so much..

sy betul2 harap yg sume kwn sy akn ucapkan bende n jgk..even dlm hati je pon da ok..ade bnyk kenangan yg kite leh bina ngn cipta ngn sume kekwan kite..x kira la kenangan manis ke, pahit ke, or masam sekali pon..tp yg pntg sume nye berakhir dgn senyuman..

sy btl2 bencikn perpisahan yg meninggalkan luke kat hati ni..it is so hurt..asenye sume pon ase cmtu gak..tul x??

emm, sbnrnye da lme da post pape kt blog n..wlupon mgkin xde sape2 nk bce blog n, sy ttp wish yg terbaek kpd sume pembace sekalian..
have a nice day..
keep fighting in your live!
fight-to-oh!!!

jumpa lagi kwn2..

The Most Funny Thing in My Life

People always say that we have to face our future but we cannot forget our past. Though, that is something very important in our life. As for me, I have something that I can not forget until now which is my funny experience. Perhaps, everyone may experience it, but I do not think so. It happened when I was 8 years old. That was when I was in year 2 in primary school. Until now, I still can remember that funny thing which I had experienced. The incident happened in my family's holiday in Kelantan.

Every year, my family and I will go for a holiday at many different places and for that year, we chose to spend our holiday in Kelantan. That was my first time being there. For the first day, we arrived in Kelantan at about 10 p.m. because it was already late, so my father decided to sleep and refresh ourselves in my relative house, Pak Ngah's house. We have a very well sleep that night because we already exhausted with the long journey that we had took, about 9 hours from my house to here.

In the next day, we went out early in the morning to go to a popular destination in Kelantan, Pasar Siti Khadijah. I am not sure how that place look alike nowadays, but I still can remembered the atmosphere of the crowded place there. As a little girl, I was not attracted with the things sell there, but what I was really interested to a 'kereta lembu' which happened to be there at the time. I really want to take a ride on it. After my parent finished their shopping, we all took the chance to take a ride on the bullock. I was really surprised when the bullock moved. It was as slow as a snail. I never thought that what the lyrics "sejam sebatu", from the song that my teacher always sings in the class was for real. I always laugh when I remember about it.

At the evening, we began our plan to search for the guesthouse which was available there. Luckily, we found suitable one, a two story house with many rooms available for rent. My family has 7 members, but because all of my siblings were still kids, then we only rented 2 rooms for the day. For me, I chose to sleep in my parent's room. In the morning, what I remembered was someone woke me up then asked me to take my shower. I did not knew what had happened before I opened my eyes in that morning, but when we were taking our breakfast that morning, then I knew why everyone showed up with anxiety face at the first place. It was because they were worried about me, who was considered as a missing girl at that time.

Early in the morning, my parent had started searching for me in the entire guesthouse. They were so panicked when they noticed I was gone from their room. Everyone was searching for me in every room in the house with many thought in their mind. "is she ran away from this house?", "is there any bad guy came and kidnapped her last night?" or "is she walking outside in her dreams?" Yet, they noticed my slippers were still outside of the door. So, maybe I was kidnapped! Luckily, my sister remembered my habit that was always slept under the bed, so she looked for me in my parent's room under the bed. What a shame! She finally found me sleeping tidily under the bed. After woke up, with an innocent face, I take my towel and go to the bathroom to take my shower.

In summary, when I remember about what had happened to me at that night, surely I will laugh at myself. What a funny thing that I had done. Pity my parent had to be in such a panic situation at that night. However, it taught me to be a good girl when I am sleeping, no matter where I am in this world. So, I will always keep the memory of the holiday forever. Perhaps it can be the memory I treasure the most.

Pss...How many marks that I will get with this horrible essay?? OMG

CONFESSIONS OF A CIKGU

A senior teacher talks about how she is fast losing her enthusiasm for the job because of the ever-increasing non-teaching chores she has to take on.

IT was recently announced that a committee, headed by Education Director-General Tan Sri Alimuddin Mohd Dom, and comprising representatives from various teachers' unions, has been directed to look into complaints by teachers on how they have been burdened with other chores instead of focusing on their primary duty — teaching.

However, it is comforting to know that the Deputy Prime Minister, Tan Sri Muhyiddin Yassin, has himself said that he feels that there is a basis to teachers' concerns. He wants the committee to thrash out problems and get back to him with sound recommendations to improve the lot of teachers in the country. The deadline? Two months.

Let's keep our fingers crossed. Teachers are looking forward to some positive and workable recommendations from the committee.

The story below is of a teacher with 27 years of experience whom I shall refer to as Tee. Tee loves sharing her knowledge with students. She even takes pride in class projects and thoroughly enjoys the interaction with her charges.

However, over the years, she has been burdened with paper work and has been constantly called to work on Saturday and dumped with more responsibilities.

Such duties which can easily be carried out by a clerk, is taking a toll on Tee, 52, who is losing her enthusiasm for teaching. It will be a shame if the country has to lose dedicated teachers like her.

A steady job

Tee was born in a small town in Selangor, and is the eldest of 10 children. Tee's father was a lorry driver and her mother, a rubber tapper. After completing her secondary school education, she decided to teach and had applied for a place in the then teacher training college (it is now known as teacher training institute).

"It had always been my ambition to be a teacher and my parents had no objections, so long as their eldest daughter had a steady job, or as they would refer to it, an 'iron rice bowl' job."

However, before that materialised, she accepted a JPA (Public Services Commission) teaching scholarship at Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia (UKM) to pursue a Bachelor's degree in Science and graduated with honours in 1983. She obtained a Diploma in Education from UKM the following year.

Tee started teaching in a secondary school in Karak, Pahang and had stints in Sekinchan, Sg. Pelek and Selayang all in Selangor, before she was posted to her present school in Petaling Jaya in 2004.

"When I began to teach in the eighties in small towns, students then were very simple and they respected their teachers.

They did not seek much outside help or tuition for the subjects they were weak in, as they do today.

"At that time, their only source of knowledge and solution to their problems lay in doing the homework we gave them in school.

"As such, the the teacher-student relationhip was good. I could actually chart the personal development my students made under my tutelage. We teachers were instrumental in shaping their personality and character," she says proudly.

Tee does not mince her words when she is asked to comment on how teaching was like, more than two decades ago.

"Those days, all I had to do was to teach, guide and to get to know my students as well as I could. If there was paperwork, it was minimal.

"If you look at students today, you can see that, because of their exposure, they are more knowledgeable. They have higher expectations and demand more from their teachers. I even feel that some of them are very egotistical."

There's one aspect of her job that Tee feels has changed for the better — preparing and setting examination questions.

"It was a more difficult task back then, but now, with the advent of numerous workbooks, the computer and educational DVDs, the job has become so much easier."

I ask her if she is satisfied being a teacher.Tee thinks hard before responding.

"When I first began teaching, my salary was very low but I was a happy teacher. Today, my salary is much higher, and rightfully I should be happy, but I am not."

"The clerical work I have to do, is becoming unbearable. You see, as a Mathematics teacher, I already have a lot of preparation, planning and marking to do.

"Now, on top of that, there are many other deadlines to be met. All parties, including parents, the principal, colleagues and students have high expectations."

As a ketua bidang (head of department), life at school is even more stressful for Tee.

She is in charge of several academic programmes and for her, the documentation and filing she has to oversee, is literally back-breaking.

At 52, and with menopausal symptoms, particularly hot flushes, plaguing her, Tee's sentiments about school have not changed.

In fact, for the first time in her teaching career, she was stressed and worried when the new school year began in January.

"I was anxious about my work and the ever-increasing responsibilities for the entire year. Could I take all this and more for another year?" she asks with a frown.

Tee tells me of an ex-colleague who had just passed away due to breast cancer, and of another one, who was currently undergoing treatment for uterine cancer.

When Tee herself went for a mammogram recently at the University Malaya Medical Centre (UMMC), she was startled to hear from a nurse at the Radiotherapy Department that nine out of 10 patients undergoing chemotherapy at the hospital were teachers.

"Do you think it's caused by stress?" she asks.

I found her question disturbing to say the least. Can it be?

Blank expressions

"You know," she tells me, "I also find myself thinking a lot about my students these days. Sometimes, when I see 'blank expressions' on their faces, especially from those who are academically weaker, I wonder to myself 'Why are they here? What do they feel about having to learn something that is not relevant to their daily life?

"For some of them, Mathematics is such an alien subject that even I begin to wonder what I am doing with them. On top of that, I feel that students today have to learn too many subjects and this makes life very challenging for the weaker students."

Tee is of the opinion that the Government should set up more vocational schools to provide living skills training to this group of students.

"At least then we can help produce our own skilled workers, rather than having to import them."

Tee feels that these days, she is more like a clerk doing paperwork instead of spending time giving personal attention to her academically-challenged students.

"Just think. Each class has about 30 to 40 students, so to be efficient, one has to have classroom management skills too. With the type of students we have, it is no easy task managing them. Many young teachers are afraid when they have to enter a classroom."

Tee also regrets that with her increasing workload, she has little time to mentor and guide young teachers at her school.

"These teachers lack experience badly, and I feel they need to be guided for at least a year.

"With senior teachers being bogged down with non-teaching duties, there is hardly any time to develop a young teacher's potential, or help boost their self-confidence.

"Often, they just get thrown into the deep end of the pool and unlike us — the teachers of the older generation, who had so much more grit and resilience — this group of young teachers take a longer time to adjust and cope."

Tee tells me that despite being graduates, many of them lack communicational skills.

"For the teaching of Science and Maths in the higher forms, young teachers simply aren't competent in the language of instruction.

"Students then start complaining and parents start calling up the school demanding an explanation."

Tee shakes her head. "If I'm given the choice today, I don't think I'll choose to be a teacher anymore. I'm not against teaching; I enjoy being with my students. In fact, I'm at my happiest when I'm in the classroom. But our job today isn't just to teach and deal with students, is it?"

"Don't get me wrong. In class, I still do all I can for my students. I know they view me as a stern person because I follow the rules and I mean business when I am teaching them. I'm a hardworking and responsible teacher.

"I do sometimes crack a joke or two, and we all laugh together. Sometimes I tell them stories about my difficult childhood and how I had to be like a mother to all my younger siblings — how I had to act responsibly even when I was just a teen and the amount of housework I had to do and how difficult life was for me.

"I know my students admire me for the determination I have shown through the years to make something of myself. We have a good relationship – my students and I. I am firm but kind. I even treat them with sweets and chocolates."

Tee also shares with me what she thinks about her relationship with her students.

"Oh, without question - they are very bold, talkative and not as disciplined. They want to be treated as friends rather than as students. In class, they are quick with their comments and remarks.

"In fact, I get aggravated when my students are rude or indifferent.

"But, personally, I'm a cheerful person so I do let down my guard once in a while and have some fun with them. As a teacher, I realise that they have needs that I must meet.

"For their sake therefore, I have to be prepared mentally and emotionally, as well as be sound in my own knowledge, especially in the subject that I teach. So far, that has not been a problem with me.

"When they tell me that I'm the best Additional Mathematics teacher they've had, I feel truly rewarded.

"When they get good results in Maths, some of them have even hugged and thanked me for being their teacher.

"I like getting positive feedback from my students, and I must admit that I feel young because I'm always surrounded by them.

"So, you see, it's not the teaching part I don't like. It's the other chores that get me down."

I ask Tee what is the best compliment she has received as a teacher. She is wistful, but her answer moves me as it still does her.

"One of the happiest moments in my life was when a mother thanked me for helping her son to be a cheerful, confident young man.

"The mother told me that her relationship with her son had improved tremendously because of me. It felt very good that I had such an effect on someone's life."

Does Tee have any advice for young teachers?

"Be committed, be knowledgeable and be prepared for what you are supposed to do. Always remember that if you want your own children to be taught by good teachers, then be a good teacher to the children of others. What goes around comes around."

On a serious note, Tee is already thinking of applying for optional retirement next year simply because of the ever-increasing non-teaching chores.

cantik

salam..

cantik..
rasenye klu sebut tntg cantik ataupun kecntikkan, msti sume org ade persepsi masing2 yg kdgkala berbeza antra 1 sama lain..tapi..

kt cn sebenarnye koi nk cerita tntg 1 siri drama indonesia ni yg bertajuk CANTIK..

sbnrnye koi bwu je beli set vcd citer n smlm..emm, td bru mula tgok citer n..
takat n da abis smpai episod 3 da..

komen??

takat ni, jalan citer dye ok la jgk..tp..ase cm kebanyakn scene dye terlalu pndek..cm terkejut2 je..huhu..tp takat n bole ikut ag la..

ag satu, td roomate ade tertengok jap citer n..dye ade tegur mak agnes dlm citer n..

"mak dye ke 2? mudenye!!"

lebih kurg cm2 la ayat dye td..pas tengok btul2, ye jgk..tp bese la 2 kn..berlakon je pon..agpon mse skrg n rmai yg cube mcm2 sbb nk nmpk awet muda..hehe

papepon pas n nk smbg ag n nk tgok samada citer n bgs scara kseluruhannye ke ataupon x..hope ok la kn..(bawu la berbaloi beli)..hehe

okla, nnti koi komen ag k..

sayonara..salam..

RINDUNYA NK MENULIS KAT BLOG NI!!

Salam sume..

asenye da lame betul x melawat blog n..bkn sengaje, tp mmg ade kekangan ckit la awl2 taun n..
cuti taun pas time kat umah da mmg xde tenet nk online..
bile da balik maktab awl taun ari 2 lak tibe2 je dpt tau yg blog da xleh bkak..katernye kene block..
aduhaii, pe la naseb..

emm, skrg bwu leh bkk blog smula..moge2 pas n da x kene block da la..hehe..
kpd sume rakan2 blog, teruskan berkarya dlm blog ek..hehe..

moge minat tuk menulis akn terus bercmbah melalui laman blog ni..

wassalam..

durian

mggu pas, sy balik umh..
masuk je umah, terperanjat nmpak ade durian dlm troli..tp 2 bwu 4 ke 5 bijik..
belum tengok kat dapur ag..fuh!! da mcm bukit durian lak..haha..
pelik gak ase, sbb asenye kt kebun durian x bape menjadi..rupenye mak bwu blik dr lipis..
beli time on the way balik umh la 2..

em, ckp tntg durian n, sy sbnrnye x bape suke mkn durian..
tp x kater la smpai benci n x leh mkn lgsung..kebetulan akk sy pon ade blik sme, dye la yg beria-ia yg nk ajk sy mkn durian..emm, layan jela..da hadap depan mater..huhu..tnpa sdar da hmpir 3 bijik durian kitaorg bukak..wah2, banyaknya..x sgka tul..tp dye la yg mkn bnyk..sy tumpang sekaki dua je..hehe..

durian pon ade mcm2 rase gak kn..korg sume suke rase durian yg mcm mane??

-mak kater, durian yg ade rase pahit2 ckit 2 la bawu sedap..
-abah kater, ha, betul la pe yg mak korang ckap 2..
-k.lang kater, ish, x suke la yg pahit2 n..org suke yg manis2 ase dye..
-saya?? ntah la..no komen..hahaha..

kamu semua lak mcm mne? kongsi la ckit..